For many New Yorkers, the idea of crossing the Hudson into New Jersey is more than just a change of address — it’s a lifestyle upgrade. Whether you’re craving more space, lower taxes, a backyard for the dog, or simply a quieter pace, New Jersey offers all of that without losing the convenience of easy access to Manhattan.
If you’re thinking about making the move from NYC to NJ, here’s the insider’s guide to help you decide where to land, what to expect, and how to make the transition as smooth as possible.
Why So Many New Yorkers Are Choosing New Jersey
The pandemic kicked off a migration trend, but it hasn’t slowed down. Thousands of New Yorkers have traded cramped apartments for larger homes, private outdoor space, and communities with great schools. Here’s why New Jersey is such a draw:
- More Space for Your Money – That $1 million NYC condo might get you 800 square feet in Manhattan… or a four-bedroom Colonial with a yard and garage in suburban NJ.
- Lower Property Taxes (in Many Towns) – Yes, NJ is known for higher taxes overall, but compared to NYC’s combination of property tax, income tax, and city surcharges, many homeowners still come out ahead.
- Commute-Friendly Locations – Towns along NJ Transit lines or near PATH stations make commuting into Manhattan surprisingly easy.
- Schools and Community – New Jersey boasts some of the highest-rated public school systems in the nation, plus a strong sense of community that you don’t always find in the city.
- Quality of Life – From farmers markets to hiking trails, beaches to ski slopes, NJ offers a more balanced lifestyle without giving up access to NYC’s energy.
Popular New Jersey Towns for NYC Transplants
One of the biggest decisions you’ll make is choosing where to land. Here are some top options based on lifestyle:
1. Hoboken & Jersey City
Perfect for those who want a quick PATH train ride to Manhattan and a similar urban vibe. Hoboken is family-friendly with great restaurants, while Jersey City offers a variety of neighborhoods and price points.
2. Montclair
Known for its arts scene, diverse community, and beautiful historic homes. Direct train to Penn Station and a vibrant downtown make it ideal for creatives and professionals alike.
3. Maplewood & South Orange
These sister towns offer a Brooklyn-meets-suburb feel with charming main streets, strong schools, and express train service to NYC.
4. Nutley, Clifton, and Bloomfield
Located just 12–15 miles from Midtown, these towns are commuter favorites. Nutley, for example, has a small-town feel, plenty of parks, and easy highway access.
5. The Luxury Corridor (Short Hills, Alpine, Franklin Lakes)
If you’re moving from a high-end Manhattan property and want luxury amenities, privacy, and top-tier schools, NJ’s upscale suburbs deliver.
The Commute: What You Need to Know
Moving to NJ doesn’t have to mean giving up your Manhattan job. The key is choosing a location that fits your commute style:
- Trains – NJ Transit offers direct lines into Penn Station from many towns.
- PATH Trains – Connect Hoboken, Jersey City, and Newark with lower Manhattan.
- Buses – NJ Transit and private lines like DeCamp serve commuters to Port Authority.
- Driving – If you’re hybrid or remote part-time, having a car can be a game-changer for errands and weekend trips.
Pro tip: If commuting is daily and non-negotiable, live near a direct train line. Transfers can turn a 35-minute ride into over an hour.
Cost of Living: Breaking Down the Numbers
While New Jersey can be more affordable than NYC, it’s important to budget realistically.
- Housing – Median home prices vary widely. For example, as of 2025, you might pay $450k–$600k in Nutley or Bloomfield, but $1.2M+ in Montclair or Short Hills.
- Taxes – Property taxes are higher than the national average, but you’ll avoid NYC’s extra income tax.
- Utilities – Expect higher costs if you’re upgrading to a larger space.
- Transportation – Owning a car adds insurance, maintenance, and fuel to your budget.
The bottom line: you’ll likely get more home, but also more ongoing expenses like lawn care and heating.
Lifestyle Changes to Expect
More Space, More Stuff – It’s easy to fill that garage or basement with things you never had room for in the city.
Outdoor Living – Backyards, decks, and patios become part of your lifestyle. Barbecues replace rooftop happy hours.
Community Ties – Be ready for block parties, school fundraisers, and knowing your neighbors’ names.
Driving Again – Even if you live near transit, you’ll probably end up driving more than in NYC.
Tips for a Smooth Transition
- Work with a Local Agent Who Understands NYC Buyers
The NJ market moves differently from NYC’s. Partner with someone who knows both sides and can help you navigate bidding wars, inspections, and local quirks. - Test-Drive the Commute
Do it during rush hour before committing. The difference between a 40-minute and 70-minute commute is huge over time. - Research Taxes and Schools Before You Buy
Even within the same county, tax rates and school rankings can vary significantly. - Get Pre-Approved Before You House Hunt
NJ sellers expect buyers to be financially ready to make an offer. - Budget for Upkeep
Lawn care, snow removal, and home maintenance will be part of your new reality.
The Emotional Side of Leaving NYC
Leaving New York can be bittersweet. You may miss the walkability, the food scene, or the fact that something is always happening. But many who make the move find the trade-off worth it — more space, less noise, and a sense of calm that’s hard to find in the five boroughs.
The good news? NYC is still right there. Date nights, Broadway shows, and Yankees games are just a train ride away.
Final Word: Is New Jersey Right for You?
If you want more space, a stronger sense of community, and the flexibility to still work or play in NYC, moving to New Jersey could be the best decision you make. The key is to choose the right town, understand the costs, and embrace the lifestyle shift.
As a real estate professional who’s helped dozens of NYC buyers make the move, I can tell you — once you have that first summer barbecue in your own backyard, you won’t look back.
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